What is love? baby don't hurt.... no no but seriously what is this thing called love? Is it that tingly feeling you get when you see someone that you like? Is it how you feel about your bestfriends or your family? Every person has their own specific idea of what love is so clearly theres no way to answer any of these questions universally. Take a second and think about what love is to you...and think of how your idea of love could e contradicted by things that have happened in your life our in other peoples lives that you know about.
It's definitely not the most simple idea, love is very complex. many people split love into categories like the way i love my friends or my family or the way i love the person I'm in a relationship with or even the way I love my god. To be honest thats something i used to do but I've realized that to me thats meaningless because love is one word that represents one emotion, an emotion that I'm fairly certain i wont even experience in its entirely and its full pureness. I highly doubt that ill end up with a person that I will do anything for or will stay with no matter the circumstances or so on and so forth. When you look at the statistics of the divorce rate or even if i look at my own family love is scarce. It's one of those things that people under value and over use and it tends to mislead people when its used untruthfully or without merit.
I hear people say the love on a daily basis and when i hear someone say 'i love you' to me I'm flattered but i don't usually take it seriously... there have been way to many times where people have told me such things and then ended up out of my life and i don't doubt for a second that this has happened to everyone that is reading this right now. Please no one take offence to this, if I say 'I love you' to anyone it doesn't mean that i don't mean it its more along the lines of a social norm to say such things as a way to express the way that we feel about someone so please don't take what I'm saying the wrong way because if I do say it that means you are important to my life.
Anyway, back on track. What is love? In my completely personal opinion i believe that love is a perfect idea but does it exist in our world? i don't think so. In a perfect world love would be everywhere but in the world that we live in with all of its imperfections and hate and all the negative that exists (mind you it is necessary to keep our universe in balance) the very essential design of unbounded endless indestructible love cannot exist.
I know many of you will completely disagree with me but I must get back to my studying. TO BE CONTINUED.
"I have nothing else to fall back on.. it's this or nothing.
ReplyDeleteI've been told forever that.. 'you're not gonna sell', 'no one's gonna get you', 'don't turn too smart', 'you can only be a part of a crew'.
And I just know that there are so many people that get told these things.. every day.
I used to think that this was all about me, but I'm not doing it for me. I'm doing it for them.
When you start affecting lives, you have more responsibility, you know?
you're no longer doing it for you, and if you are still doing it for you, you're just a selfish person.
From the bottom of my heart, I'd like to thank each and every solitary one of you.
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Everybody comes up to me and says things like 'good job', and 'you did it!' but, WE did it! We did it, we did a good job today! And I realize the sacrifices that you guys make. And I love you! Because you're my family. So when I yell and when I scream, It's not that I don't like you, it's that I'm nervous... I don't wanna fail! I have so many blessings, but the biggest blessing I have in my life right now, is my team."
-Nicki Minaj
you're awesome